Joseph R. Woolman Jr., 87, of Newark, Delaware, passed away peacefully at his home on September 8, 2026, eleven days shy of his 88th birthday.
His passing came just thirty-six days after the loss of his beloved wife, the love of his life and devoted companion of more than six decades, Norma B. Woolman. While the loss of both Norma and Joe in such a short period has left an immeasurable void in the hearts of those who loved them, their family finds comfort in knowing they are reunited. Their enduring devotion to one another was a remarkable example of love, and their story will continue to inspire all who knew them.
Born on September 19, 1938, in Woodbury, New Jersey, Joe was the son of the late Marion Jessup Woolman and Joseph R. Woolman Sr. He was also preceded in death by his brother, Joseph Cooper “Coop” Woolman.
Joe attended The Peddie School in Hightstown, New Jersey, before earning a degree in Mechanical Engineering from the University of Delaware, where he met the woman who would become his wife and lifelong love. A proud member of the University of Delaware Class of 1961, he was also a member of the Theta Chi Fraternity.
Although trained as an engineer, Joe possessed the vision and foresight to recognize the promise of a then-emerging technology industry. He joined International Business Machines (IBM) during the early days of computing and built a distinguished career spanning his entire professional life with the company.
Joe was quite simply larger than life in every sense. His warmth, generosity, humor, and genuine interest in others made him a beloved presence wherever he went. To know Joe was to love him. He had a remarkable gift for bringing people together, sharing stories, and making everyone feel welcome.
Joe found joy in many pursuits throughout his life. He was an avid supporter of University of Delaware football, a lifelong enthusiast of Lionel trains, and a dedicated surf fisherman. He cherished time spent at the Delaware beaches, particularly in Dewey and Middlesex Beach. Whether savoring a Bloody Mary at The Starboard, a crabcake at Woody’s or relaxing with a fine glass of bourbon, Joe appreciated life’s simple pleasures and the people with whom he shared them.
An active member of both the Bridleshire Farm and Middlesex Beach communities, Joe valued friendship, fellowship, and service. Above all else, however, he was devoted to his family. He was a loving father and grandfather who took immense pride in the accomplishments and happiness of his children and grandsons. His unwavering love, guidance, and support shaped their lives and will remain one of his greatest legacies.
Joe is survived by his son, Joseph R. Woolman III; his daughter, Kimberly A. Passero; his niece and nephew, Jody Woolman and Tom Woolman; and his cherished grandsons, Dillon Passero and Tyler Passero, all of whom he loved dearly.
The family considers themselves profoundly blessed to have shared so many years with Joe and to have witnessed firsthand the extraordinary love that he and his wife shared throughout their lives together. His memory will forever live on in the countless stories he told, the traditions he passed down, and the lives he touched. In accordance with his wishes, the family held a private burial in Bethany Beach, Delaware.
Dad, thank you for everything. We love you deeply and will cherish forever the memories you created for us. May we all be fortunate enough to experience the kind of enduring love that you shared with Mom.